Oral sex tips - how to give the best blow jobs
Most men love oral sex. Some men even prefer a blow job to full sex. So
as oral sex is such a big deal for the boys, we ought to know how to do
it well.
Oral sex: how to give the best blow jobs
Going
down on, giving head, sucking off, mouth f***, there are plenty of ways
to describe the act of oral sex, but they're all talking about the same
thing - sexual pleasure, down there, using your mouth.
What is oral sex (blow job)?
To give the Latin name, fellatio, (aka blow job), is an
oral sex act which involves stimulating the penis using the tongue,
lips and mouth. Most men are fans of the
blow job as it gives him intense sexual sensations and can bring him to a pretty intense orgasm.
How to give oral sex:
As a rule,
oral sex should mimic the movements of full
sex penetration and while it's called a
blow job - there's no blowing involved! Don't make that rookie mistake!
Instead,
blow like a pro and take his penis into your mouth, (with plenty of
saliva) and suck up and down his shaft mimicking the thrusting motion of
penetration, taking care not to graze his 'friend' with your teeth.
Remember when it comes to sucking him off, teeth are never welcome.
One
thing men don’t like is mechanical oral sex, performed without passion.
He wants to know that you're enjoying it as much as him, so vary your
rhythm, speed and intensity. Try gently caressing his testicles and then
try upping the pace for a few strokes. Take him to the edge then bring
him back from the brink to get him revved up and eager for more.
Lick,
suck and play with his erect penis using your tongue don't be shy to
make eye contact too. To make sure you’re hitting the spot, watch and
listen to his reactions. Ask him what he likes. All men are different
and he'll be thrilled that you want to know exactly how to please him.
Giving
good head isn't rocket science, but there are some top tips, tried and
tested, that will help make your next blow job one to remember. Read on
for the sofeminine secrets on how to be a 'head' mistress. Oh yeah.
Oral sex tip #1: Sensitive areas
To
make him go weak at the knees, when giving him a blow job linger on the
parts of his anatomy that are particularly sensitive - the tip of his
penis, his testicles and his perineum - the secret spot between the
testicles and the anus.
He’ll also
appreciate lots of attention around the shaft whether you use your
mouth, tongue or hands, some good shaft action will get him closer to
blowing his load.
Oral sex tip #2: Use your hands
If
your partner's penis is on the large side you may find it more than a
mouthful. Blow jobs can be difficult to perform on bigger penises but
don't worry - you're not expected to be able to take it all the way
down.
A simple trick to blow job success is to use your hand and your mouth together - which will feel good for any size of penis.
Use an edible
lubricant
or your saliva to get things going moving and move your hand from the
shaft (bottom) to the tip until he's really hard. Then add your mouth,
taking him in as your hand moves up and down.
Oral sex tip #3: Involving other areas
Oral sex is about using your mouth to maximum effect, on his penis, and other areas too.
Try
gently (very gently!) sucking on his testicles one at a time. Lightly
kiss his inner thighs. Lick his super sensitive perineum (along the line
between his anus and testicles). All added together he'll be totally
under your control - a total turn on for you too!
Oral sex tip #4: Hot and cold
Blow jobs and oral
sex should be fun so if you want to spice it up try playing with temperature and sensations.
Temperature
play can be fun, so try taking a mouthful of warm tea, swill it around
your mouth and swallow then take your man's penis into your mouth for 20
seconds and suck. Then take a mouth full of cold water and do the same.
The difference in hot and cold will feel fabulous for him.
You can also try champagne, fizzy water, mint, ice cubes and
ice cream for extra unexpected sensations.
Oral sex tip #5: Get saucy
Some women can't bare the taste of their man in their mouths which makes oral sex rather less enjoyable.
While
performing a blow job you can add chocolate body paint, squirty cream
or ice cream then spend time licking and sucking it off, or try a
flavoured lubricant - Durex do a good selection.
Oral sex tip #6: Gagging
Gagging
during oral sex isn't something to be embarrassed about. He'll think
you're gagging because he's so massive and if you actually tell him that
then you'll give him one enormous ego boost that he'll love you for.
If you find yourself gagging often then try using your hands as well - see oral sex tip 2!
Oral sex tip #7: Ejaculation
When he starts to come, there's the question of whether to swallow or not. You don’t have to: each to their own.
If
you find the thought of sperm in your mouth revolting, don’t force
yourself to swallow: it won’t make it any less pleasurable for him. Just
make sure he withdraws in time.
Otherwise let him come in your mouth and then spit it out. Have tissues on hand to either spit into or mop up any spillage.
Some
men like to come onto breasts, bellies or other parts of their partner
but make sure you've agreed to this first - it's entirely your choice.
Of course you can swallow too - which brings us onto the subject of taste...
Oral sex tip #8: Ejaculation - improving the taste
Some foods and drinks do have an effect on the taste of your guys load.
Alcohol,
caffeine, recreational drugs and nicotine all add a tang to your man's
semen and make it taste like a bad night out. The day after a binge it's
probably best to avoid blow jobs altogether!
Vegetarians
have better tasting sperm but too much cauliflower, broccoli and
asparagus can have a seriously negative impact - so get your guy to
limit these foods if you're planning to swallow after an oral sex
session.
Some foods to avoid are obvious -
garlic and onions make our breath smell - and add a funky taste to our
guy's semen too thanks to their high sulphur content.
If you want to
sweeten his spunk try getting your man to eat plenty of fruits that are
high in natural sugars - pineapple juice is a winner. Also sweet and
fragrant foods and herbs like parsley, wheatgrass, celery, cinnamon,
cardamom, peppermint and lemon can all make for a sweet oral sex
session.
Oral sex tip #9: Sexually transmitted diseases
When
giving (or receiving) oral sex, be aware that hepatitis B, fungal
infections and other STDs can be passed on via oral sex and blow jobs.
The risk of HIV transmission from performing oral sex is low but it can
still happen. If you’re unsure of your partner's sexual past, use a
condom.
Mouth infections can also be
transmitted via oral sex and remember never to give head when you have a
cold sore unless you want to give him herpes!
Oral sex tip #10: Overcoming reservations
Some
women are repulsed by oral sex and blow jobs and don’t like the idea of
putting their partner’s penis in their mouth, it's not for everyone -
the idea is to both get turned on from the experience.
If
it makes you feel more up for it try having a shower together as part
of foreplay so that you can nice and clean before you get dirty.
If
you still don’t feel comfortable with giving oral sex, remember there’s
no point forcing yourself: he’ll feel it if you’re not happy and won’t
get as much pleasure out of it.
The goal is
shared pleasure and excitement. Talk to him about it and you might find
you change your mind in time. Blow jobs should be a pleasure for both
of you, knowing you're turning him on is a turn on in itself.
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